Is FEAR stopping you from getting what you want?

15 August 2012

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I know it sounds funny when I say you don't really want to be happy. (Although I feel everyone's ultimate purpose is to be happy in life) It's true! I've seen people who don't really want to be happy because they are stuck in the victim mode and unfortunately, they enjoy being that.  I'm not sure why but for sure they enjoy having the attention.  The wrong kind of attention that's for sure.

I'm sure we all have one of these people in our lives. And I want you to think of one right now.  What do they usually talk about? They complain and whine and complain and whine..... and gossips about others. And people will have to lend a listening ear to them and console them.  I suggest leaving these people alone because THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE and in fact they will pull your energy down.  Think about how you feel after talking to them.  Don't you feel more tired and drained?

Now think about being around motivated, positive and energetic people.  How do you feel after talking to them? I feel inspired and energized after talking to them.  And more motivated to pursue my dreams.  These are the people you want around in your life.  

DO you know you are the average of 5 people you hang around most?

You can tell the difference between those who genuinely have a problem and those who CONSTANTLY have a problem.  Honestly, I like to talk about my problems to someone I trust.  I do feel it's actually good to be able to talk about your problems instead of keeping it to yourself. It's therapy for me and sometimes while talking, I find solutions to the problem.

Everyone has fears. But what exactly is it? FEAR = FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL!!!

Fear is your ego trying to keep you exactly where you are.  If you want what you want, it's outside your comfort zone and really it's uncomfortable to get out of your comfort zone. 

Just think about what you weren't able to do in the past but easy now. The more success (I'm not just talking about money. It can be talking to the person you like, pursuing your dreams....) you want, the more you need to get out of your comfort zone.

Most of the time, we listen to that little voice, called the ego and thus keeping us really small.  We only do things we feel comfortable or feel that we can achieve.  You must learn to stretch yourself and go get the things you want.  DO not let anything stand in your way.

Successful people feel fear but they do it anyway!

We are not meant to do small things! We are all made for big things.  Don't believe me?  Look at our Creator, do you think he plays small or big?

SO, get your act together and start living life the way you want it!

4 Tips to get rid of FEAR:


  1. Fear shows up for a reason so you thank the fear and tell it you won't be listening to it. Let the fear play out.
  2. Messages from the Spirit are always uplifting. Choose to listen to messages that makes you happy.
  3. Take action.
  4. TRUST and have faith that you will get what you want. ( I know most people are stuck because they lack trust and they slip back to their current life.  They are still unhappy and complaining and whining. LEAVE them alone as no amount of advice will make them change.  Trust me, you'll be happier leaving them alone and go do your own thing. )
When you have a desire, the solution is already there for you.  The only thing that's stopping you from getting what you want is YOU! What are you resisting doing?


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