Another Short Review by Model Blogger Christine

23 November 2012

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Christine did an advertorial post for me 1 year ago (19th Mar 2011). Read it here.


Below is NOT an advertorial post, she did a review out of good will.

Exactly 16 days before my birthday, i met Elyse (www.purposelyinlove.com). Having gone through a turbulent childhood and many failed relationships, Elyse is now healed whole and enjoying a happy marriage for the last 10 years. All because she has self-love. 

Self-love, it's something i if not everyone, struggle with. 

I was defensive when Elyse asked if i was happy, confident and positive. I think, or rather, thought i am!

Not being personal friends, Elyse was tough in grilling me about my life and harsh in her words. She gave me a much needed reality check. 

Why have my relationships failed? I looked down and mumbled "just didn't happen loh." She asked if i knew what i want. I retorted, "of course!"

"What do you want?" I rattled off some qualities, got frustrated with her interrogation and said," Aiya! I don't make a list. I've never made a list because making a list means Mr. Perfect and that don't exists!"

Oh-o...wrong answer. Elyse frowned and her lips pursed in an almost angry pout.

"Why do you not make a list? Why do you short change yourself and tell yourself you won't find a perfect man?" She tapped her fingers on the table repeatedly.

I recoiled in my seat, i felt small and i felt tears welling up. She was right.

There are certain things i need to change in my life, and what better time to do when i turn 17, in dog years.

I remember me and my bestie doodled on a A&W tray paper what we envision our love life to be. She drew a condo, a man, a baby and a Mercedes. I drew a beach, a man & a heart shaped with candles.

Today, she has a condo, a man, a baby and a Ford.

Making a list is not about the 5Cs(unless that's what you want). Making a list is a commitment to yourself to look out and recognize the qualities you want in a partner. 

In fact, i resisted making that list until 2 weeks after because it was a challenge on my belief system. 

However, since i'm turning 17, let me do something adult. Let me try something i've never tried before.

Here's my list. I need a man who's
1.Christ believing because my dad honours God and he honours my mum despite her flaws
2. Financially savvy because i suck at knowing what to do with my money
3. A planner
4. Disciplined (& thats why uniforms are sexy)
5. Responsible & reliable
6. Patient because i can be a toilet hogger
7. A listener
8. Not prideful because i want my opinion as a partner valued
9. Love my family as i love his
10. Treat me special and not everyone special
11. Honest & righteous
12. Committed




ImageElyse is Singapore's Leading LOVE coach for Successful Single women from www.PurposelyInLove.com.  She is a Love Attraction Expert and also known as the "Queen of Love Transformations ". She specializes in helping single women who struggles to attract amazing men who will rock their world to Attract their TRUE LOVE in 90 days and get a love life the easy and painless way by showing them why they are stuck and experiencing blocks with love and help clear them pretty quickly.  

Because of this her clients get proven, undiluted and specific step by step instruction on how to get over their exs, attract men they really want and not who they get without looking desperate and feeling needy. No more mind games. No more conforming to society "rules". Her clients usually experience an A-HA moment in  just 1 session. 

She believes that it's every woman's ultimate goal to love and be loved and live a purposeful life.  When a woman experiences and gets the love she desires, she is able to create miracles in her life. She becomes an alchemist. On the other hand, when a woman's life is blocked in love, it affects every area of her life.  She literally shuts down and experiences struggles in every area of her life.

"Love life and live life the way you want it!" ~ Elyse-Anne
© Elyse-anne - The Love Coach for Successful Single Women | Relationship expert for All Women

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