Are you having an AFFAIR with yourself?

20 August 2012

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Why do you think people have affairs?

Honestly, I think there isn't a right or a wrong answer in this because both parties do play a part to contribute to either party straying. I'm not advocating affairs but affairs really means someone got emotionally disconnected.

I don't believe happy people will do things to hurt themselves or others despite knowing the consequences.  Although it's no a right or wrong thing to do but there will be KARMA debt one has to pay off.  

So, why do you think people really have affairs?

Most will think it's because of cheap trills or they want to conquer more love.  But I think these people merely wants love and they are not getting love from their spouse or partner. That of course is not a reason to stray.  Although we are given a logical mind to think but we are emotional creatures and most of the time we allow our emotions to run and rule our lives.

I'm not here to talk about AFFAIRS really but the relationship you have with yourself.

Like people who stray from their relationships, do you also do things to hurt yourself because you either don't understand yourself well or you love yourself enough.

When ever I ask my clients, DO YOU THINK YOU LOVE YOURSELF?  They always answer me YES, OF COURSE!!! Honestly, I know that's not the case.  Otherwise they won't be allowing their problems to control their lives.  You may think I'm saying this with arrogance.  But hold on and think about it.

If you really love yourself:

  • Why would you even allow yourself to be upset? ( and most of the time it's caused by other people. It really means you are allowing others to control you.)
  • You will know exactly what you want and what makes you happy.
  • You choose happiness and love over fear and worries.
  • You will not tolerate any uncomfortable situations.
  • Spend quality time with yourself.
If you think you love love yourself, take me up on this challenge and answer the questions in 3 secs.
  1. Who are you? (That's not your name)
  2. What makes you happy?
  3. What do you REALLY want in your life?
  4. How to love you?
  5. Do you talk to yourself?
If you can't answer these questions in 3 secs, perhaps it's time to sit down quietly and spend some quality alone time (alone means by yourself). Clear out your mind chatter (mental clutter) and have a good chat with yourself.

There are so many benefits to do that and I can name you a few:
  1. You will find peace within yourself.
  2. You will connect with your Angels (Higher Self).
  3. You will be able to manifest what you want quickly.
Time is yours and only you can schedule time for you. Are you spending too much time worrying about others?  


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