Are you making Painful or Pleasurable Daily Decisions?
24 September 2012
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Life is all about choices and decisions! From the moment we wake up, we have to choose what we want to wear, what we want to eat, de caf coffee or regular coffee, which high way to take to avoid the jams.... and the list goes on.
Lets face it, there are just simply too many choices. I am very poor at making choices when I am presented with the choices of colors. And sometimes, I end up buying two different colors of the same design.
Although it is just a small decision to make but sometimes i can take up to an entire day just to decide. What about the bigger decisions?
For example: If you are thinking of changing your job, should you stay or leave. Then someone from a company called you up to inform you that you have been selected for the post. And you wonder again, if you should take up this job or not.
Don't you wish you had someone tell you for sure that YOU SHOULD LEAVE THE JOB and take up the new job?
You are in a relationship and you feel that the time is coming to and end. But there isn't much issue at present so there is no reason to call for a break up. What do you do? Should you stay on just because you have been in this relationship for so many years? Or should you leave this relationship because you are not feeling happy? BUT your family adores him. So stay or not to stay?
Don't you wish somebody could just tell you that you SHOULD go live a fulfilling life?
Isn't there always this "What if I made the wrong decision?" And then you think, think and think about it and before you know if, it is too late to leave the company or the position has been filled. OR you just can't leave the relationship because you are stuck with a kid now.
Wouldn't you like to be able to make confident decisions all the time?
Here are a few tips to help you make pleasurable decisions.
1. When you make a decision, make sure you are making it from a place of love and not fear.
When you make a decision from the place of love, you body should feel happy and excited. You can almost hear your soul singing with joy!
When you make a decision out of fear, you will usually feel scared and maybe even experiencing cold sweat and you don't feel good.
2. When making a decision, make sure that you are calm and centered. You mind should not be thinking about 1001 things while trying to make this decision. Take lots of deep and calming breathes if needed to be centered.
3. Really go deep within yourself and ask if this is what you REALLY want. And you will not regret this decision. Regret is another emotion that derives from fear and you don't want to be feeling that.
4. Know that there is no right or wrong decisions. Even if it seems like a wrong decision, you can always turn the tables and make it right. Learning and growing is part of the lesson and this is why we are here in the first place.
5. Ask your HIGHER SELF or your ANGELS for guidance.Ask and you shall receive. It is really that simple. Put your requests in your prayers and you will be given your answers in your quiet time (meditation).
Last but not least have faith and believe that there are no coincidences in life. Everything happens for a reason.
I hope you enjoy these few tips and remember LIFE IS JUST A JOURNEY to discover who you really are.
© Elyse-anne - The "Love Attraction" Coach
Who do you live for?
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Have you ever wondered why are you here on earth? And if you're struggling and suffering at the moment, I'm very sure you'll be asking questions like WHY THE HECK AM I HERE ON EARTH? It just doesn't make sense to suffer!!!
Well, my dear friends, I've got breaking news for you!
YOU CHOOSE TO BE HERE ON EARTH! It's not a choice you've made but a choice YOUR SOUL has made.
Do you believe we all have a soul and a creator that created everything here on earth? Most of us believe that we are a human being having a physical experience.. NOPE... that's not true.... We're a soul in a human body having a physical experience.
Ok!! I can see some of you violently shaking your heads and think I've gone gone completely off!!! First of all, I'm not here to challenge your beliefs neither am I here to change any part of you if you don't want to. I'm simply here to expand your awareness and stir up some thinking thoughts within you.
" Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense."
~ Buddha
Come on, people used to think the earth was square and that the WRIGHT brothers have gone completely off as well... yet people believe in ghosts and spirits??? So, it doesn't mean you're not aware, it's not real!! Einstein has proven that everything is made up of energy and so are our thoughts.
Ok... back to the question.... WHO DO YOU LIVE FOR?
In order to answer that question, you must first ask yourself, WHO ARE YOU? If you're most people, you'll tell me your name or race. But that's NOT who you are.... "Mary" is your name and that's not who you are...
So go think about it... WHO ARE YOU REALLY!!!
You're a divine soul in a human body having a physical experience. So what is your SOUL made up of? I may not know you or have not met you and even if your life purpose is to help the needy and change the world, one thing is for certain! You want to be loved and you're searching for that UNCONDITIONAL LOVE experience.
- You're longing to be accepted by your peers and family.
- You want to be in an environment where you can be yourself.
Wait a minutie.... how can you be yourself when you don't know who you are??
Have you watched the movie "Lost In Translation"? I think many people are walking around feeling lost, not sure what to do with their lives and yet longing to be the grass on the other side.
But then again, there're many people who are quitting their corporate jobs and take on more meaningful work eg. Healing, traveling around the world to be where they need to be ... open up their dream cafe... I left my stable flying career and pursued my Healing career years back. I remember even my own husband thought I've completely gone looney!
So, who do you live for? No one can answer this question except yourself.
I live for myself and no one else. This may sound a little self absorbed but think about it, if you don't live for yourself but someone else, that means you're giving up your power to someone else and expecting someone else to make you happy! You're being irresponsible!
I don't care what your circumstances are right now.... whether you're having a bad relationships, financial trouble or you're about to end your life.... up till now, you're responsible for your life. You may think it's not your fault... but you've created it because you've either allowed it or your thoughts have attracted the situation to you and manifested into reality! And only YOU'VE the power to change it! Yes it requires effort but are you willing to do something about it!
Honestly, I do keep away from people who complain and justify how horrible life is but yet not want to do anything about it. That's their own journey and I'll not interfere.
You can argue about this till the cows come home but we all given FREE WILL to choose and you've a choice to choose if you want to be a winner or a victim.
The choice is yours.... Winner or Victim?
Who do you live for?
© Elyse-anne - The "Love Attraction" Coach
Why are you not getting what you want even though you've followed every system and principle
16 September 2012
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Ok.... I get it!!! You're sick and tired of looking and waiting for love, money, success and happiness. And you've tried everything you can possibly get your hands on. You've seen all the famous psychics, fortune tellers and perhaps even healers....
BUT you're still stuck! Plus, you've heard so much about the Law of Attraction and followed the law to the T but still...... you're stuck!!!!
And you're waking up everyday thinking what's there to live for?
If I'm redundant, why the heck am I even here on earth?
If I'm redundant, why the heck am I even here on earth?
Well, first of all, I've to say all the people who you've sought advice or help from were probably right and that deep healing even happened for you BUT you were too consumed about getting the results you want to "SEE" that you overlooked everything else.
Most people think that "as long as I know what I want, the Law of Attraction will work for me"... I bet that includes you.... I'm so sorry to tell you that... NO! It doesn't work like that....
Of course, you first need to know what you want in your life and then BE that person or change. And if you're already in the process of becoming that person and you're still stuck, then perhaps this is happening to you.....
YOU ARE NOT TAKING CARE OF YOUR PHYSICAL BODY!!! When your physical body is all chocked and clogged up, you feel heavy and uncomfortable. Therefore, it blocks you from receiving inner guidance and abundance from the divine.
Most of us who are on the path of personal development, spend so much time on developing our mindset that we neglect our physical body. In fact, most of us don't even take care of it well!!
You may think it's not important to take care of your body but think about.... where do you live in? Please don't tell me you live in a house... yes your body lives in the house but where do you live in? YES! Your body!!! You can change address but you definitely can't change your body! Unless you've some super natural powers....
In our fast paced society where we've to constantly keep up with the times and with so many dead lines breathing down our necks, it's really hard to have time alone. If you're having such life styles, it's no wonder that your ability to manifest is compromised.
Like I said, in order for you to attract or manifest what ever you want you must first be that person. And if you're always surrounded by such fast paced events, how will you've the time to get clear on what you want? If you're surrounded by negative people or events, then it's even harder to think straight and attract the positive things you want.
Here's another tip! In order for you to attract or manifest everything you want, your body, mind and soul must be aligned.
For example:
Marie sick and tired of working in your current job and she knows it's time to move on. Her passion is to open a cafe and she has attracted investors and people who can help her start living her dreams. But because she has 1001 to do and that keeps her awake almost every night (since the day she has decided to embark on her new journey). Over time, because it's so stressful and she no longer knows how to handle her stress, she breaks down and eventually her little cafe was only in business for 3 months!
Take time out TODAY to give your body some TLC!!! It's crucial that you do it otherwise no matter how much money or passion you've in life, you'll still break down.
Simple healthy tips to give yourself some TLC:
- Eat healthy high energy food. (potato chips are not healthy food)
- Drink lots of water. (85% of our body is made up of water)
- Deep breathing. (helps clear the mind)
- Detox. (you'll feel lighter after cleansing and detoxing)
- Spending ALONE time. (that's when you'll get inner clarity)
Do you feel hurt when someone says NO to you?
10 September 2012
If you haven't already noticed, life is all about you isn't it?
Don't believe me? Let me prove it to you....
When you look at a group photograph, who do you look at? Who's the first person you look for?
YOU! YOU and YOU!!! Ok! Proved my point. <you should see the grin on my face.... hehe...>
How do you feel when someone says no to you? Do you feel rejected, hurt or embarrassed?
Since its all about us, we will certainly feel so. Why so? I bet no one really told you why. So here it is.
Because your self esteem has been threatened and you feel that you have been judged. If so, I can safely say you are someone who gets affected easily by what people think or say about you. Saying sorry is also very difficult for you because you can never be wrong right? And you will want to win every argument or have the last sentence.
I always ask people if they really care what people think of them. Of course, that's a silly question because EVERYONE will say no! I'm not here to burst your bubble but if you are my client I WILL!! Hey! My job is not to make you feel good.... I'm here to make you realize what you don't know about you so that you can teach others to LOVE you. And the hardest thing for anyone is to acknowledge that there's something not right and they need to fix it.
It's always easier to fix others because you are not doing the physical work. Looking deep within yourself is something hard to do as well. Because your EGO will tell you that nothing needs to be fixed and you are perfect the way you are. NOW.... think about it.... if your EGO was right, then how come you are not living a perfect life?
I'll be the first to admit, I haven't completely tamed my EGO but I do recognize when my EGO is talking in my head and I know how to shut it up! It's also called mental chatter or mind clutter. Most of us are walking around with so much mental chatter in our heads that we are confused most of the time!
My point here is really to have a conversation and look deep within yourself the next time someone says NO to you. Notice the emotions but don't react or judge. Just stay neutral and see where your emotions lead you to.
You may be happy to know that when people (most of them) say no to you it's not because of you. We're all given freewill to make choices isn't it? If you are someone who always say YES to people so that you will get YES back then you may also need to check on your integrity and intentions. Are you in a victim mode?
Here are 7 tips to increase your self esteem and be "bullet proof".
- Look at the mirror and give 1 compliment to the person in it.
- It's not about you TODAY, be a listener to someone who needs your time.
- No judging of others and self.
- Be polite and courteous today.
- Send LOVE to people you don't know and don't expect anything in return.
- If you are a YES person, say NO when you want to.
- If you are a NO person, say YES to everything today!
Heal Your Relationship With...
03 September 2012
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How are your relationships?
When I say relationships, what comes into your mind?
Perhaps your relationship with your partner or spouse, friends, family....
Everything is all about relationships.... including MONEY!
Are all of your relationships in harmony? If yes then you can stop here and you don't need to carry on reading. =)
I suspect probably not! Although we have to deal with and handle relationships everyday, most of us are clueless on how to really make it really work for us.
Whether it's your relationship with your partner or spouse, friends, family or money, it boils down to 1 single relationship. And if don't get this right, all your relationships won't work out!
I may not know you but I know if you are not having good relationships, I know you are not having a good relationship with yourself!
Let me guess:
- you are confused.
- can't seem to decide on one thing.
- you THINK you love yourself but what do you really know about you?
- you are unhappy.
- at a crossroad.
- you are affected easily by what others think of you.
How can you expect others to love you or even treat you the way you want when you don't know what you want or treat yourself right?
STOP looking outside yourself to make yourself happy. It doesn't work like that!
Before you go on today, take a few minutes and ask yourself what do you really want. No one will be able to answer you this question.
When you get YOU sorted out:
- you will know when and how to say "NO".
- have more self confidence.
- builds your self esteem.
- no longer be a victim in life.
- experience true happiness for no reason.
- healthier.
- glowing skin.
- attract good relationships.
- manifest everything you want.
And the list goes on but it's more than enough to get you started on getting to know YOU better.
Want to have better relationships? Get moving today to work on yourself!
Results are permanent!
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