Why are there sufferings and nothing seems to be working out?

11 October 2012

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I woke up this morning and I had huge urge to read this book.  I have had this book for over 3 years now and I never had the inclination to read it till now.

I believe there's always a DIVINE timing for everything and that includes the right information being presented to you at the right time.  Like the saying goes, when the student is ready, the teacher appears.

Over the past 1 year, I was on my own journey in search of my life purpose and who am I really.  In fact, it went well over 1 year.  One of my friend commented, she was waiting to see when I would sort things out and finally decide on what I really wanted to do.  I was jumping from being a healer to a business coach to an image consultant to a network marketer to a money coach then back to being a healer again.  Yes, indeed I was super confused at who I was and who I wanted to be and what I wanted to do.

But after 2 years, the message never changed, I just didn't listen and I had no patience and lack of knowledge to pursue the "thing" I'm meant to do.  In short, you could also say, I lacked self confidence and faith in our creator.  You know, they say you teach the thing you need most and I do agree that I needed to let go a lot of my fears and completely open my heart to give and receive love.

I've finally made up my mind to devote my time and effort to promote this thing called "LOVE".  I know at first it may sound mushy but as I dwell further into the subject, LOVE is not just the romantic kind of thing.  It's a state of BEING.  That means, love is not just an emotion but a state of knowing that we are all perfect.

There're only 2 emotions. LOVE or FEAR.  

What is LOVE? What is Fear?

Fear is the absence of LOVE.  

My lesson in life is about self love and your lessons are your gift to the world.  I never quite like or loved myself very much when I was much younger and I'm still working on myself.  Once, I started my own self love journey, I started to notice and observe the people and women around me.  90% of the population are carrying so much hurt and anger and since they are unsure of how to express or channel their anger, people are walking around like the whole world owes them a living!

To begin to feel what love is, start by feeling grateful to things you already have.  Like the food on the table, which we take it for granted.  Once you activate that gratitude feeling in your heart, you will feel your heart opening up.  I won't be surprised if there's a tear or two. When you're in the state of LOVE, you can manifest anything and everything into your life.

Know that GOD doesn't create junk and therefore you're not junk and neither is your "enemy".  When you can forgive and bless the ones who have hurt you, and see that good things are happening to them, my friend, you've experienced UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

Love is something we all want but yet we it seems like a mystery to us.  Expecting someone else to love you back when you can't love yourself, is like feeding yourself poison and expecting someone else to die.

You are struggling and suffering because you're not aligned with LOVE.  I call myself a LOVE ATTRACTION coach, a relationship expert to all women because you can't find love.  Love is already within you.  To have good relationships, the best relationship you need to have is with yourself first.

I see it over and and over again with so many women, who are unhappy because their partners are not up to their standard, their kids are not doing what they want them to do, their job sucks because no one seems to like them.......

JUST STOP!!! And think what are you doing to yourself!  If you say you love yourself, then why are you allowing yourself to suffer?  You deserve to be happy and you need to believe that!

You can have anything you want once you remove all self doubt and the "I don't think I can do it" thinking.  If doing what you've been doing has not brought you to where you want to be then don't you think it's time to change some things?

Love is the best medication to all illness and dis-ease.  Stop allowing people to control your emotions and start living life for yourself!  If you don't know how to love you, then no one will!

© Elyse-anne - The "Love Attraction" Coach for all women

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