Do you know how love feels like?

15 April 2013

What is love? I know you know you want love. But have you ever paused and thought about what love really is. I want you to close you eyes and go back to a time when you last felt (unconditional) love. When was the last time you felt that kind of love?

We are all busy with our daily work. We wake up in early in morning... rush off to work and try to make it to work on time. Before you even start your day, you wish your day has ended. And the cycle begins again. Is this how your daily life looks life?

If yes, do you want to live like this for the rest of your life?

We all know that what ever happens, there's only one destination for us and that is, we'll definitely be going back to our Creator.  So if that's the case, why not live a life you REALLY want? 

I know! There's this thing called FEAR holding us back.  

"What if I quit my job and I can't pay my bills?"

"What if I leave my boyfriend and I can't find someone else or... better... maybe worse?"

"What if the next guy I meet breaks my heart again?"

Have you entertained such thoughts? Well, my friend, these are called MIND CHATTER!  Having a "negative" conversation with yourself and trying to convince yourself that what ever you do is NOT going to work out. And you believe what you tell yourself.... and you wonder why is life not working out for you.... hhhhmmmmm....???

I'm not saying that your experiences are not true and I'm not asking you to deny your feelings.  What I'm trying to say is that you cannot allow your past to decide the future you can have.  You can't change the past BUT you can create your future.

If you want your TRUE love aka MR. Right to appear right away, then you need to believe that you deserve true love as well. Or... you're totally ready for him. Otherwise even if he does appear, you won't be able to recognize him.

The journey to finding your MR.Right may be more exciting then him actually arriving at your doorstep. Some times it's more pleasurable to want then to have. That could be ONE of the many reasons why you are still single.

Another MAIN reason is... in order to attract love you must BE love. DO YOU KNOW WHAT LOVE IS? If you don't know what love is or how it feels like then even if you're already experiencing love, you may not know.

I've never really experienced love as a little girl and even when I was growing up... Till now... 

I look at my children and I can literally feel my heart expand.  I can feel some energy flowing out of my heart. 

I can't find any reason NOT to love them.  I love them just the way they are. I don't need them to act a certain way or speak a certain way so that I can love them unconditionally.

You may not feel your heart opening up when you look at my kids... That's ok... But I'm sure you can too experience this unconditional love.  So, don't panic if haven't felt this kind of love yet or it had been a long time. You can think of your pet, your grandmother (grandmas usually have nurturing energy), an event that happened when you felt free.... 

Just close your eyes, take deep breathes and let your mind wonder. Don't try to control your mind and judge what's happening. Everything and anything is possible. You may want to play some relaxing music as you relax your mind.

The purpose of this excise if for you to experience love in your own way and they express it out so that you can attract the love you deserve.

Try it and let me know how you feel.

© Elyse-Anne - The Love Coach for Smart and Successful Single Women | Attract Love Mindset Expert | The Unconventional Matchmaker

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