There are many reasons why you can't make good decisions. 

One of the reason is the voice in your head telling you that you can't be successful or the 1001 and one reasons why you shouldn't do it. If you are unable to identify who's voice it is then you won't be able to recognize your own voice i.e. your true desires.

This other voice can be your mother, father, grandparents, teachers or even your ex.

When you tell your parents or your family that you want to quit your corporate job to start a business or take time off to travel for a year, what response do you think you'd get?  For most people, they will be told that they have gone completely mad. Not that they don't want you to be successful but they are worried that you'll get hurt. So they have projected their fears on to you.

Therefore it is important to identify who's voice it is, otherwise you'll accept their beliefs and fears as yours.

Another thing that I want to talk about is about the fear of not good enough and what will people think of you. People allow the opinion of others to hold them back from living a life they truly desire.

Just image what life can be like for you when you release all these harmful and toxic thoughts?

We've all been brought up to think that we need to sacrifice our own wants and happiness to put others before us. This is so that we'll well liked and it shows that we respect others.

What if I told you that by doing that you're sabotaging your own happiness and success? As your love coach, it's be duty and responsibility to tell you the truth.

Find out why going for massages and a holiday is not how you love yourself.

This week I would like to talk about: Are you attracted to married men or someone else's boyfriend? 

A conversation between my husband and I inspired me to make this video for you.  I was having a conversation with him and he was telling me what some of his female colleagues told him. They made comments like... it's such a pity that he's married and why didn't they meet him earlier. I suppose you or someone you know, at some point in time have been attracted to emotionally unavailable men. So what it mean?

It means that you don't believe that there are good men left or there're not enough good men around. You're simply borrowing someone else's beliefs and decision that their man is good. It doesn't mean that other people's man is good for you.

If you take from others, something will be take away from you as well. Some people call it Karma but it's really the Law of Cause and Effect.

Watch the video to find out how you can authentically be you to attract your true love without feeling desperate or looking needy.