[Random Daily Minutes] Ask the right question
30 July 2013
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want to Have Men and Money | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker
[Money Minutes] Your Relationship With Money
29 July 2013
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If you are struggling to keep and make money then you have to watch this episode because I will share with you some truths about money that will change how you think about money forever.
In this video, you will :
- learn how to money mind map your relationship with money.
- discover how you really feel about money.
- how to transform your relationship with money and
- make money fall in love with you.
Watch the video to discover that ONE question that will change your money story once and for all!
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want to Have Men and Money | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker
What To Do When You Are Pissed?
25 July 2013
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What should you do or say when someone says something nasty to you? Do you react?
What does it really mean when you are triggered?
When you are triggered... it's not about the other person. The person is merely bringing up what's bothering you, basically you under lying emotions that you've swept it under the carpet.
You must know that there is such a thing called FREEWILL, she the "attacker" can say whatever she wants but you have a choice how you want to react.
I cannot make you angry if you don't unconsciously agree with what I say.
Also, if you are always triggered by others means you allow others to control you.
Watch the video to find out what you can say or do when someone pissed you off.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want to Have Men and Money | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker
[Money Minutes] How you spend your money?
24 July 2013
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I realized that most people who struggle in attracting love also have the same struggle in attracting money. So... let's look at how you are spending money because how you spend money determines how you will attract money.
- Are you someone who is always looking and hunting down for sale and cutting out coupons?
- Are you being CHEAP to yourself?
- Are you not willing to pay people in full?
If you are all of the above, what it means its that you have a lack mentality. You don't believe that you can't afford so you can't pay people in full.
If you are stingy to yourself and others, then that's the vibes you are sending out and the BIG BRUTAL question is... If you are stingy to others then why would the universe be generous to you?
If you have enjoyed this video, do leave me a comment and share it with your friends.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want to Have Men and Money | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker
Where Is My Mr Right?
22 July 2013
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I get this question all the time..."ELYSE... where is my MR. Right and how can I find him?"
Are you wondering why is so easy for other people to find someone and get married but it's so difficult for you?
Here's the thing, it's not where he is but who are you being to attract your Mr Right?
If you want Mr. Right, then don't you think Mr. Right would want Mrs Right too?
Watch the video to find how out you can transform yourself to be Mrs Right and design your love life the way you want it.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want to Have Men and Money | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker
A Night With Elim Chew
12 July 2013
I've never thought that I would come this close to a local successful entrepreneur... let alone have dinner together at the same table. But I guess there's a time for everything and I choose to believe that I must be doing something right to vibrate this experience into my life. I also would like and choose to believe that success isn't too far away from me. After all, as the law of attraction states... LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE.
Frankly, this wouldn't have happened if I didn't invest in myself and be part of this amazing community of women entrepreneurs (The Athena Network Singapore). I'm the membership ambassador btw... If you want to have something you never had before then you have to do something you've never done before and that includes in investing in yourself. If you think Money can't bring you happiness... think again.. If you are not using money the right way, then of course money can't bring you happiness. I don't want to get into my soap box here but.. invest your money on the right things!
Let's continue....
So... the SOCIAL entrepreneur that I had dinner with was ELIM CHEW. She's the owner of 77th street. A local brand that I kinda grew up with. I remember wearing my IJ uniform and hanging around 77th street because it was just the cool thing to do when I was young.
Along with 10 other successful entrepreneurs, not only did we get to "touch" her in real life, we got to ask her (many) questions. Before the dinner, I was wondering what questions should I ask her. What if my questions were dumb and stupid.... I mean... she's so successful and I guess she must be used to answering and discussing "BIGGER" topics.
YES I did ask my "dumb and stupid" questions because I really wanted to know. (no one laughed at me so the lesson is: just ask!)
I wasn't not sure if I would feel this calm and collected if I were seated with Donald Trump but Elim was so real and authentic. I really like her energy - calm and grounded.
I feel one of the many reasons why she is as successful as she is today is because she has a very strong belief and faith in GOD. She listens to her own intuition and takes a leap of faith. Believe it or not, she didn't have any business plan and all she wanted initially was to just sell stuff and run her own hair salon. She started her retail chain by accident.
She also said that there's no right or wrong decision... as long as you are able to sleep peacefully at night, and that would be your RIGHT decision. Integrity is doing the right thing when no one is watching.
I asked her: How did she manage to ELIMinate her competition and remained on the top?
Her reply?
"Because my name is ELIM!..." hahaha...
Elim is now a social entrepreneur and also a mentor to a lot of youths in Singapore. She is THE VOICE for the Singaporeans. She dares to speak her mind and challenge your thoughts. Well, if you want to be a change maker / agent, then you'll need to have the courage to speak your mind and not worry if you p*ss people off.
Here are the highlights of the dinner.... ENJOY! =)
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| Aromatic duck isn't the same as Peking Duck. |
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| I was seated opposite Elim... nice view eh? |
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| Feeling so blessed and honored! |
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| And the rest of us.... |
Girl Meets Boy
09 July 2013
I have never done this before.
My workshops are usually for only women but somehow there will always be 1 guy who will attend my workshop against all odds. And during the workshop, the "poor" guy will represent his entire 5 million counter parts. The women will pose a question to him and he will sorta have to "defend" his species.
So... I thought... why not have an event open to men as well. But I didn't want it to be like a speed dating event, where people just try to get as many numbers as possible or try to "score" a date by the end of the event.
I wanted it to be REAL and authentic. Leave the "trying to be perfect" persona outside the door.
Since this was the first time organizing an event like this, there were rooms for improvements but... overall I felt I have met the objectives of this event. (self confidence)
Just a gentle reminder when you attend events:
If you are shy and don't speak up then, there's nothing I can do to help you. Don't just sit there and expect to be served.... Meaning when it comes to your own happiness, don't expect to be spoon fed. I can create the environment but the rest is up to you. Learn to take 100% responsibility for your life.
I've had people telling me that I should make them write down 3 points what they have learnt.
HELLOOOooo!!! This is not a classroom environment!
Here are some high lights from that day.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love Coach for Smart and Successful Single Women | Attract Love Mindset Expert | The Unconventional Matchmaker
Can You Take No For An Answer?
07 July 2013
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Can you take NO for an answer?
It's common for women to say YES when they really want to say NO. For example: If a girlfriend calls you up and ask you go out but you don't really feel like going out. But you say yes anyway because you are afraid of pissing her off. Basically what you are really afraid of is, you are afraid that you won't be likable so you say YES instead of saying NO.
How do you feel when people say NO to you?
If you go out with a guy and you really like him but you know that he's not that into you. But you are so afraid that he'll say NO to you and leave you so you end up being the YES woman and you end i being someone you are not.
How about at work? If you don't get that promotion, how do you feel?
Do you feel that there's something wrong with you?
Watch the video to find out how you can not only take NO for an answer without hurting your ego and how to turn the situation around to make NO work for you.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love Coach for Smart and Successful Single Women | Attract Love Mindset Expert | The Unconventional Matchmaker
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