Is There Right Timing?
31 August 2013
Do you believe that there's (divine) timing for everything? And the reason why you are still single and haven't met anyone is because timing isn't right for you?
I hear women say this all the time...
"The time isn't right now and when the time is right, he'll appear."
"We met when the time wasn't right. He's married."
"I'm ready for love but I'm waiting..."
Is this you? Or have you heard anyone said it?
Karma and The Law of Attraction
25 August 2013
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Do you believe in Karma? People are so afraid of the word karma. They associate the word with retribution. And have you heard people saying..."I must have done something bad in my past life and therefore my relationships are cursed."
What is karma really? Karma is the law of cause and effect. You get what your give. So if you do good, you receive good. You do bad, you get back bad vibes. It has nothing to with you being punished because you have been bad.
How does karma affect your relationships?
If you are cynical person, always gossiping and backstabbing behind people's back or if you are always judging people then, that's the vibes you are sending out. And because you are in this zone, you will also be paranoid that people are also doing the same thing to you. You uncontrollably become more sensitive. Because you feel that you've been "violated" you counter react with more gossips.
On the other hand, if you are sincerely concern about people and accept people just the way they are, you naturally become a love magnet. Because you are just so pleasant to be hang around. When you are just yourself, you give others the permission to be around you.
If you are always attracting men who are emotionally unavailable or are always cheating on you. Perhaps you are not emotionally available to yourself, to the people around you or you don't keep your promises.
When you do good, you will attract good. That's how the law of cause and effect AND the law of attraction work hand in hand.
Look at your current situation now and see how these 2 laws are playing out in your life. If you can recognize the pattern, you can use these laws to your advantage and you can then create a life you truly deserve.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want To Design Their Love Life | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker | Certified Creative Love™ Coach
VIP Sparty 1 Year Anniversary
23 August 2013
Purposely In Love celebrates 1st year anniversary this month! I celebrated the event with my VIP girls and hosted a mani/pedi sparty with them. A day of royalty pampering and treatment.
It's important to celebrate every little milestone you've achieved - no matter how big or small. When you celebrate your success, you change your experience in your subconscious mind. And you send out gratitude vibes to the universe and that will bring you more joyous occasion to be grateful for.
When I started my healing practice 5 years ago, as a hobby, never did I thought that this day was possible. I had no business plan, no strategy.... just a burning desire to help people.
Just to share a little about why I decided to do this work and how I ended up as a Love Coach.
I seriously don't think anyone who knew me from my past would expect that I would achieve success today. My mother taught me that I needed to find a rich man to be happy. And that was my mission in life - to find a rich man.
When I was 15 -16 years old, I feel into "bad" company. I missed school, ran away from home, stayed out late at night partying and taking drugs. I was eventually caught by the police (hand cuffed) and stayed overnight in the police station. I was brought the the juvenile court the next day and the judge would decide my future. Lucky for me, my mother pleaded with the judge to give me a 2nd chance. (The result would be going to a girls home).
At the age of 20, I started my career as a flight attendant. The night life tempted me and because I partied and drank every night, I became an alcoholic (I didn't even realize). Anyway, after being in the industry for almost 10 years.... I got sick and tired of all the bitching, gossiping and backstabbing, life showed me another way of living.
And my spiritual journey started. I attended every spiritual workshop I could find.
- Angel Therapy Practitioner (by Doreen Virtue)
- Angel Certification Program (by Charles Virtue)
- Angelic Guidance
- Tarot and Angel Card Reading
- Hypnosis
- Past Life Regression (with Andy Tomlinson and Antoinette Biehlmeier)
- Angelic Reiki Master
- Quantum Touch
- Family Constellation
All these trainings were only the tip of the ice berg. I felt there was a greater calling and I could do so much more. And when the student is ready, the teacher appears, That's when I discovered coaching. One of a millionaire coach I follow said, your obstacles are your gifts in life and I took some time off to figure out what exactly were my obstacles and how I could use it to help others.
It didn't take me very long to realize that my story was the lack of self love for myself and the messy relationships I used to have - think emotionally unavailable men. That's when I found out about LOVE Coaching. I got myself certified as a Creative Love™ coach and I didn't look back since.
Over the past year, I went on radio, got featured in a magazine and the most recent achievement is that I got nominated as XTRAORDINARY Women 2013. It's a dream I never thought possible for me... but it happened! When you are aligned with your mission, miracles can happen and very quickly.
I'm pursuing a ph.d in philosophy (the metaphysics way of course!). And introducing my brand new coaching program called Marry The Right Man - Helping women make the right decision.
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With the lady boss of Aleyda Mobile Spa. |
My vision for Purposely In Love is to be THE HUB for all women who want to design their love life. And eventually have a Love Coaching Academy to teach and train others who have the same vision and mission as me.
And now... please enjoy the photos of that special day....
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What are the girls looking at? Oooh... Comparing their toe nails. |
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Door gift from Aleyda... Complimentary! |
Cheers to your love life!
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want To Design Their Love Life | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker | Certified Creative Love™ Coach
A Day Of Love, Luxury and Transformation
19 August 2013
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My work is basically facilitate transformations. I'm always on a look out on creating NEW ways to facilitate my client's transformational journey in the most effective and "painless" way.
In my humble opinion, everyone needs a coach but not everyone is coachable. Why I say everyone needs a coach?
Because we all have blind spots and therefore we can't see what we can't see. And if we can't see what we can't see, then we can't possibly transform what we can't see.
It takes a lot of courage for one to hire a coach because not everyone have the courage to work on themselves. There are many reasons why people are stuck in their lives. One main reason is the arrogance to think that they know it all!

I have had the honor to facilitate this one day intensive journey with my client. Where she went through both physical and emotional transformation. You can't imagine what we did and how much she has achieved in just 1 day! I'm extremely proud of her....
Her intention was to increase her self confidence and have clarity in her future. So.... I dated her for a day. Here are some pictures of the day.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want To Design Their Love Life | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker
Why Are You Attracting Unavailable Men?
14 August 2013
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Are you wondering you are attracting men who are emotionally unavailable, the wrong kind men, men who keeps me waiting and basically all the wrong kind men?
If you are not attracting the kind of men you want, then perhaps you are not keeping your boundaries neat and tidy.
You need to put yourself first because you tell your subconscious mind that you are worth it.
Watch the video to find out how you can turn the tables around.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want To Design Their Love Life | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker
What did your fortune teller say?
08 August 2013
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Have you gone to a fortune teller because you wanted to know the future of your love life?
A fortune teller merely predicts your love life and it doesn't mean it will come true. And if it did come true, that's because you have made it so. Why? Because you believed it and made it part of your belief system.
This is based on how the law of attraction works.
You believe it, you become it and then you will attract it.
The formula to design your love is this:
Your belief system -> Thoughts -> Action -> RESULTS
Watch the video to find out how the fortune tell or psychic reads your past. Don't allow your past to decide the future you can have.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want to Have Men and Money | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker
How Much Are You Worth?
05 August 2013
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Monday Money Minutes
How do you feel you are worth? Because how much you feel you are worth or deserve will reflect how much you have in your bank.
In this video, you will :
- learn what is your abundance set point
- how to raise your abundance set point
- learn why are you sabotaging how you are attracting money
Watch the video to discover HOW you can increase your flow of money by raising your abundance set point.
© Elyse-Anne - The Love and Success Mindset Expert | Coach and Mentor for Women Who Want to Have Men and Money | The Unconventional Relationship Matchmaker
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